Update on My Father's Situation

(Updated 9-13-2023)

My father appears to still be trapped in Ohio in an environment that is emotionally and mentally abusive. Since both of my sisters took him to my second oldest sister's home, under the false pretenses of it being "temporary", its been over eight months. (I've explained the full situation in previous posts.)
There still appears to be nothing I can legally do to help my father, because there are not sufficient laws against mental and emotional abuse or against my sisters sabotaging his relationships and manipulating him out of the home he wanted to remain in, and against them isolating him far away from his other loved ones and against them not allowing him to have private and un-interfered with communications with his other loved ones...etc

In the beginning of May I had blocked the cell that my sister set up for my brothers and I to reach our father through her, so that I would no longer get disturbing texts from her or her puppet daughter. But I had been sending my father little "I love you" text messages about once a month, more in June due to fathers day and his birthday. I doubt she relayed them to him. But I felt a need to periodically send him my love anyway. I refused to let her make me completely abandon him, because that is what she wants and has worked hard to manipulate.
   

In the past few weeks I had sensed something bad happening in my family, so I unblocked the phone, because I'd want to know if something happened to my father. And on September 9th, my sister sent a text saying that this cell for our father will no longer be used for him and that we can now leave verbal messages for him on a landline number. I'd hoped that she had finally let him have a private landline phone that he knows how to use, so that he did not have to go through her and could have private communications. But, sadly, this was not the case. In a text I asked her if this landline is his private phone that he will answer. And she said, "NO." 

It appears that my father is STILL not being allowed private phone communications that she is not involved in and manipulating. Even if she did now finally allow him private communications with us, just to save face, about EIGHT MONTHS after it had been needed and repeatedly requested, it is too late for too much, because in that eight months she finished destroying his relationships with his sons and I. And these relationships cannot be repaired while he is still trapped with, and being manipulated by, my sisters.

It looks like this situation will remain this way, which is a horrid ending for his life. On spiritual and emotional levels its actually extremely damaging. He should be in a peaceful and considerate environment, in his own home, and should have ALL of his children's hearts there for him in his final years. But both of my sisters have not allow his return home, even after he clearly stated, in writing, that he wants to return home. And they have both recently proven that they are still not capable of the levels of love and consideration that would not only let, but also help, his final years to be peaceful and to include ALL of his loved ones.

The situation between my father and I is very bleak. In this recent round of texting, my sister had also said, "he wants done with you." I do not know if this means that my father really wants nothing to do with me, or if this is just yet another one of the fabrications, in the lifelong habit of both of my sisters, to try to convince me that my father (or mother or other siblings) do not care about me...etc. It does appear that they now AGAIN have our father so severely turned against me that it makes it impossible for me to be a source of comfort to him. In fact they probably AGAIN have manipulated him into being scared of me, through brainwashing him into thinking that I am "insane" and "evil" and hateful" and "mean," that contact from me will distress him. I am truly not any of these things, so this is a horrible situation for both of us.

As for my feelings; this whole situation, through the past year, has felt far worse than a physical death to me. Its like a knife lodged in my heart. If it continues this way - if my father remains trapped in their abusive home, I will actually feel relieved when he dies, because at that point he will finally be free and in a loving place... I believe he will then see all the truths about me; I envision him with Angels comforting him as he faces the truth and forgives himself for being so fooled by them...and forgives them too...and then rests in peace.

I wonder if this phone change is going to isolate my father even more from other people as well, like his church friends. Is everyone he knows being given the new number? I doubt it.

Also what about snail mail? My sister told us his mail is being forwarded to Ohio through his old address. MY younger brother said he thought the forward was for a year. If it was; it was a permanent change from the start and they lied to my father and the rest of the family when they said it was just temporary. If they did a temporary forward the post office only allows six months, and its now been over six months. I texted my sister and asked if his mail is still being forwarded, but have gotten no reply yet. I texted other family members and they do not have her new address either. I doubt I can safely send anything, but I should have a mailing address, that will reach my father, in case I decide to try to.

I have not even tried to have a verbal conversation with my father, because my sister is the one who gets his calls. Calling would almost surely subject me to one of her cruel verbal attacks, which are usually laced with mental abuse. And I really do not want to be talking to him right after she has upset me or our father. On top of this, she and her daughter have been into fabricating things against me in relation to my communications with or about my father. Since the extremely dishonest email I got from her daughter this year I have learned that this cruel habit, of pretending that I say and do things that I haven’t, has not only not changed, but has spread into other parts of the family. I have been intentionally keeping family communications in writing because of this.
    Since they have been on a two decade long rampage to pretend that I am "evil" and "insane" and should be locked away in an institution, I do not want to give them a chance to accomplish it. In a phone call or letter I'd have no way of proving what I did not say or did not send and what she fabricated. They have done this sort of thing before, and had carelessly hurt BOTH my father and I (horribly) in the process. He does not need any more hurt. Neither one of us do, especially at a time like this. His safety, and my safety and my freedom, matter a lot to me! And we have both already been far too hurt by her fabrications.
   

However, it appears that she is now trying to force me into leaving a verbal message for my father on a land line phone. I had a dream about her changing my words and I know that this can be done in modern technologies. I am not calling.

P.S. To be fair; the general targeting of my family is also partly responsible for a lot of things, but it appears that my sisters may have instigated even more targeting. It has appeared that I am being targeted by more than one organization of people. It appears that my sisters, and their jealous hatred, put me on a hit list in a covert targeting program. And it has amazed me how much of the targeting of my father serves them as well.
   To me, the mind control part of the targeting excuses my brothers, because I know they are both victims of it. But I can not use that excuse for my sisters, because their abuse has been there through all their lives, it did not just start when the horrid levels of targeting started. I think the targeting has made them worse, but their hateful, dishonest, vengeances and abusive behaviors were already there decades before the targeting of all of us began. So I am not unfairly blaming them in this situation. My oldest sister has not shown herself much in this, but she is just as responsible for it as my other sister is. If she were not going along with it she'd have stepped in to bring an end to it. I'm sure that she has not done this because her selfish greed is at the top of that pyramid and is actually using my other sister to do her dirty work.